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Private Matchmaking

Find the partner you’re truly compatible with.

Strategic guidance and private matchmaking for ambitious people who are ready for a relationship that lasts, built on research and psychology, not luck.

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The Method

Four stages. One clear direction.

The same Relational Intelligence framework I use with executives, applied to the most consequential decision you’ll make.

Discover→

Your personality, values, attachment style and the relationship patterns that shape who you choose.

Define→

What you genuinely need in a partner, separated from what you think you want.

Assess & Optimise→

A compatibility check, plus positioning and refinement so you meet the right person as your best self.

Match

Strategic pairing with a partner chosen for long-term compatibility, not chemistry alone.

Why it works

You evaluate everything else with clarity. Why not love?

Most high-performing people are excellent at their careers and were never taught how to evaluate a partner with the same rigour. Dating apps reward a good photo and a quick swipe. Lasting love needs something more considered.

  • Matched on values, attachment and life vision
  • Personally guided by a coach and psychologist-trained strategist
  • For women and men who are serious about commitment
“With the right framework, clarity is a matter of months, not years.”
Your matchmaker
Carolina Trestian Timis

With an MBA from London and a background in psychology, NLP and psychotherapy, I developed the Relational Intelligence framework to help ambitious people choose a partner as deliberately as they build everything else in their lives.

I work with each person individually, and I only match when I believe in the pairing.

About my work
Work With Me

Three ways to work with me

Learn the framework at your own pace, join my singles database to be considered for introductions, or work with me one to one as your dedicated matchmaker.

Guided programme

5 Steps to a Prosperous Relationship

12 weeks

My signature online programme for women, to overcome obstacles, cultivate self-love and learn authentic dating strategies for a lasting relationship. No matchmaking included.

What you get
  • 12 weeks of video modules
  • Personal bi-weekly Zoom calls with Carolina on your values, attachment style, relationship patterns, partner criteria and compatibility
  • Let go of your past and set your future vision and values
  • Personality typology: understand yourself and the people around you
  • Compatibility and relationship theory
  • Self-discovery workbook and guided meditations
  • A curator to keep you accountable
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Passive membership

Database Membership

£190

Become part of my singles database, with a personal consultation and a professionally written profile.

What you get
  • A place in my singles database
  • A 30-minute personal consultation with me
  • Image consultancy
  • Ask me any of your relationship questions
  • A professionally written profile
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Dedicated matchmaker

Private Client Matchmaking

6 or 12 months

I am your dedicated matchmaker who will help you fast-track your personal life through private Zoom sessions, to help you understand patterns and personalities, position yourself intentionally and build a lasting relationship.

What you get
  • Private Zoom sessions on personalities and compatibility
  • A minimum of 5 recommended introductions
  • An elegantly crafted, professionally written profile
  • Complimentary photoshoot
  • Comprehensive personal branding
  • Date planning
  • Post-date debriefs with me
  • Image consultancy
  • A 1-month freeze option
  • Lifetime membership of my singles network, should you wish
A considered circle of specialists

When helpful, I can connect you with trusted specialists in wellbeing, aesthetics, PR and more to support your confidence, personal presentation and wider goals throughout your matchmaking journey.

Enquire privately

Not sure which is right for you? Send an enquiry and I will recommend the best fit after a friendly, no-obligation chat.

Client Stories

Clarity changes everything.

“I was skeptical at first, but the framework gave me real clarity on what I wanted in a partner.”

Emily

“It helped me drop old thought patterns and finally understand what I was looking for and why.”

Sophie

“I’m now with someone I never would have recognised as right for me before.”

Esmeralda
Questions

Before you enquire

How does the process begin?

Fill in this form to get in touch for a no-obligation, friendly chat.

Who is this for?

Women and men who are established, self-aware and ready for a committed, long-term relationship. The 5 Steps programme is designed for women.

Is my information kept private?

Yes. Your enquiry is used only to understand you and assess compatibility, and details are never shared without your consent. We never share your information with third parties.

Do you guarantee a match?

I can’t promise a result, as no one honestly can. I only proceed when I believe a pairing has real potential.

What is the difference between the three options?

The 5 Steps to a Prosperous Relationship programme is a 12-week online programme with personal bi-weekly Zoom calls with Carolina, with no matchmaking included. Database Membership (£190) places you in my singles database, with a 30-minute consultation and a professionally written profile. Private Client Matchmaking (6 or 12 months) means I work with you personally as your dedicated matchmaker, with a minimum of 5 recommended introductions and private Zoom sessions.

What is included in Private Client Matchmaking?
  • 6 or 12 month membership, with the option to freeze for 1 month
  • Personal consultation and profiling by Carolina
  • A minimum of 5 recommended introductions
  • Private Zoom sessions and post-date debriefs
  • Style transformation, a complimentary photoshoot and comprehensive personal branding
  • Coaching and guidance throughout
  • Exclusive headhunting for your match
  • Date organisation and concierge support, with access to trusted specialists in wellbeing, aesthetics, PR and more
  • Access to our exclusive events
  • Lifetime membership of my singles network, should you wish
Do you match same-sex couples?

At present we specialise in heterosexual, traditional matchmaking.

Is membership limited to the UK?

No. Our database is global.

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